Kids with LD: Recipe for Parenting Stress
January 19, 2026
By Susan Baum, Ph.D
Allison is a slow reader and poor speller. She struggles throughout the school year even with special education support. Her mother just learned of a special six-week summer program, recommended by the school to help Allison improve her reading and writing. Allison, however, has been looking forward to a summer free of academics, indulging her passion for acting at drama camp. Unfortunately camp takes place at the same time as the remedial reading program.
Conventional wisdom might suggest that Allison opt for the remedial experience and postpone drama for another summer. But Allison’s mom understands that her daughter needs time off from the hard work of school. Allison has, in fact, had a difficult year and is discouraged.
This more positive approach is not without precedent. We know that learning happens when students have strong academic success and positive self-worth. When children feel smart and confident in their abilities they are more likely to make an effort to reach goals and overcome difficulties.
Edward Hallowell, a noted psychiatrist and author of several books on children with LD and ADHD comments that the most important way to nurture individuals with learning challenges is to focus on their talents: “I have learned first and foremost to look for interests, talents, strengths, shades of strengths or the mere suggestion of a talent… Knowing that a person builds a happy and successful life not on remediated weaknesses but on developed strengths, I have learned to place those strengths at the top of what matters.”
What does all this mean for your family? Simply put, providing opportunities for talent development is important for your child’s education.
Find summer programs that align with his or her strengths and interests. Summer is the perfect time to provide students with the following types of experiences:
In short, summer is a time for re-creation. Let your child have a stress-free opportunity to find success and build an “I can” attitude to arm her for returning to school in September.
The author is the Chancellor of the Bridges Graduate School for Cognitive Diversity in Education and Co-Director of the 2e Center for Research and Professional Development at Bridges Academy. She is the author of many publications including To Be Gifted and Learning Disabled, and a member of the Smart Kids with LD Professional Advisory Board.