6 Steps to Help Your Child Make Friends
April 22, 2024
By Deena Maerowitz, JD, MSW
This year brings the second cohort of seniors to engage in the college application process since the pandemic began. Thankfully, vaccines and shifting safety guidelines have allowed many colleges to welcome prospective students back to campus for tours and interviews. Simultaneously, colleges continue to offer the plethora of virtual tours, panels, and forums that they developed to build relationships with candidates off-campus.
Yet amidst this wealth of resources, this year’s applicants continue to navigate uncertain waters. More than ever, the specific set of opportunities available at each college is unique to that institution—and may change from week to week—based on COVID conditions on campus or in the surrounding community.
This raises the organizational load for this year’s applicants, many of whom still feel stress from the pandemic. Applying to college already requires young adults to contemplate future unknowns, and adding layers of ambiguity increases the tension around decision-making. The unpredictability of COVID and the rise in college application numbers last year can bog this year’s applicants down in unanswerable questions. And none of those factors are within students’ control.
Implementing these strategies can help you feel more confident in conducting your college search:
It’s a good feeling to know that you’ve put your best foot forward. By focusing on your own process, you’ll find a sense of calm amidst the uncertainty that accompanies applying to college. That centered confidence will become its own reward as you get to know yourself better at the same time you pursue your college dreams.
Deena Maerowitz works with students ranging from freshmen to seniors and is an expert in both undergraduate and graduate education. She is widely published and sought-after as a speaker on college planning. She can be reached at deena@thebertramgroup.com. This post is reprinted with permission from an online publication by The Bertram Group.